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Splendiferou
Posted 3/3/2009 6:37 AM (#31375)
Subject: Life and Hot Chocolate




I've come across this story a few times in the several few days in emails, emailed slide shows, and once in another blog. Like a folktale of sorts, I decided to pass it on as well. Please read an enjoy.

"A group of graduates, well established in their careers, were talking at a reunion and decided to go visit their old university professor, now retired. During their visit, the conversation turned to complaints about stress in their work and lives. Offering his guests hot chocolate, the professor went into the kitchen and returned with a large pot of hot chocolate and an assortment of cups - porcelain, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive, some exquisite - telling them to help themselves to the hot chocolate.

When they all had a cup of hot chocolate in hand, the professor said: "Notice that all the nice looking, expensive cups were taken, leaving behind the plain and cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. The cup that you're drinking from adds nothing to the quality of the hot chocolate. In most cases it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink. What all of you really wanted was hot chocolate, not the cup; but you consciously went for the best cups... and then you began eyeing each others' cups.

Now consider this: Life is the hot chocolate; your job, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life. The cup you have does not define, nor change the quality of life you have. Sometimes, by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the hot chocolate. The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that they have. Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly. And enjoy your hot chocolate."





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-lotty-
Posted 3/3/2009 4:33 PM (#31377 - in reply to #31375)
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so lovely, I really like this, thanks for sharing. x
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anabel
Posted 3/8/2009 3:35 PM (#31446 - in reply to #31375)
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Thank you! I think I'll go and treat myself to some hot chocolate.And I'll close my eyes while picking the cup..!
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wishing
Posted 3/8/2009 6:52 PM (#31449 - in reply to #31375)
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i love that :) thank you for sharing xxx
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Mi-mi
Posted 2/23/2010 8:45 AM (#34242 - in reply to #31375)
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love that esp. The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything that they have. :) thanks
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charlie
Posted 2/24/2010 3:06 PM (#34261 - in reply to #31375)
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i like that. thanks!
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Mi-mi
Posted 3/1/2010 11:36 AM (#34366 - in reply to #31375)
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You probably heard this but its good: 'When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on'
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